husband dependency syndrome

a single friend asked why married ladies develop 'husband dependency' after getting married whilst she lived alone (single life) for the past 20++ years before end up living with that man??

she asked out of curiosity why girlfriends end up entertaining their husband more than their friends.

once you get married you will realize that you really miss your girlfriends especially when you try to tell him the most exciting thing that happened to you that day with full of emotions and then he reply 'um'. sometime without looking at you.

BANG! you feel like you want to shoot yourself. haha

compared to what girlfriends will respond if you tell them the same story. the chat will be more alive and further exaggeration will lead to laughter and more smile.

i don't have any answer. maybe you will know once you get married :)

but i do miss all my friends and feel better when husband is around.

tamak haloba. sume nak.hehe

kerana

kerana

rumah tangga itu bukan semuanya indah seperti yang diimpi

perlu sentiasa menambah ilmu buat memimpin diri

perlu selau bertanya buat penguat hati

dan perlu tak lekang

bersujud dan bermunajat

pada pemilik segalanya agar sentiasa tenang dan kuat.

hargailah pasangan kita,

yakinlah bahawa dia yang terbaik untuk kita

kerana

dialah pilihan Allah untuk kita.

ibadah post delivery :)

apa ibadah- ibadah yg kena buat lepas bersalin oleh ibu bapa pada anak- anak?

kerana takut terlepas pandang, sy buat jadual ni.

Timeline kelahiran bayi, as requested by my husband:

Azan & iqamat	Sejurus selepas dilahirkan	Azan- telinga kanan Iqamat- telinga kiri
Tahnik		Membuka @ memecahkan mulut bayi dengan buah tamar yang dikunyah oleh orang alim dan bertaqwa.
Memberikan nama yang baik dan mencukur rambut	Sunat pada hari yang ketujuh kelahiran	Ibn Qayyim: mencukur rambut bayi meningkatkan tahap kesihatan, membuka selaput kepala dan mempertajamkan daya penglihatan, pendengaran dan deria hidu.
Akikah	Pada hari ketujuh kelahiran atau selewat- lewatnya sebelum anak itu baligh.	Anak lelaki- dua ekor kambing atau seekor memadai. Anak perempuan-memadai dengan seekor kambing sahaja.
Khitan	Anak perempuan- masih kecil Anak lelaki- sebelum baligh

happiness keeps u sweet,

trials makes u strong,

failure keeps u humble,

success keeps u glowing,

and 

ALLAH keeps u going :)

Thanks ALLAH!

I survive Pharmacy School :)

IIUM Convocation Ceremony 8 October 2012

24th weeks

It was an interesting 24^th week pregnancy check up. I thought I went to klinik on the right day, not knowing

that I am a week late from my appointment date. Nurse said ‘ kena tgk sokmo buku merah ni, x leh

tersilap’..huhu,sori misi (^_^)

It was interesting because my hemoglobin level drop to 10.0 gm %, I told the nurse that I took hematinic 

capsule, Zincofer. I don’t take the combination of folic acid, ferrous fumarate, ascorbic acid and vitamin B

complex that I got previously because there are sooooooo manyyy.. I did not comply to all those. :P

Besides, my hemoglobin level previously was ok..11, 12.. so I am at ease. 

Now the situation is different because the baby is bigger, baby need hemoglobin, I need hemoglobin..both of 

us fight for oxygen to continue survive.hehe. I was lectured on the dangerous of anemia, what should I eat to 

increase my iron level.. and I was referred to doctor because the hemoglobin is low. Euwww, I don’t like

because it will increase my waiting time…I am starving. Kreuk2..bunyi perut.hehe. 

The only drawback of government clinic is that u need to wait tooooooooooooo long to meet the nurses n

doctors. But the service is very satisfying, the nurses are very experienced and they are very concern. Last 

month,  I went back to Kubang Kerian for raya and did not come to clinic. They called. Puan, nape x dtg

klinik ni? Ops..sori misi, sy balik kg. jgn risau, sy g klinik dekat rumah sy.hehe.

When I meet the doctor, she asked what is Zincofer. I am not used to that. U bought it at pharmacy? I said

no. She then told me that if I insisted to take Zincofer, I should combine it with ferrous fumarate. I said ok.

But deep inside my heart, I think both doctor n nurses should refer to pharmacist in charge, ask her what is

‘this Zincofer’ thing and maybe suggest me to stop taking it and asked me to start back taking all those

sooooooo manyyyy ubat. Hoho. I am not satisfied, I am calling back the pharmacist who gave me the

medication to ask her clarification. Done.

The next interesting thing is I heard my baby pulse. Huhu. Misi Tanya dengar tak nadi yg slow belakang yang

kuat tu? Saya jawab dengar. Itu bunyi baby. J Masya Allah, Subhanallah. Thank You ALLAH J

The next thing is I was injected with tetanus toxoid. Walla, terkejutnya, sampai2 terus kena cucuk.

Misi, ni untuk apa? Sakit x?hehe. misi kata kebas 3-5 hari. Sy senyap. Tiba2 rasa takut plak. Err, btol kebas

3-5 hari? 'atas orang la, misi cakap” ok, I know I am strong. Everything will be ok.positive, positive.

Misi tanya, awk dtg nge suami kan? Takut x leh bwk kete. Eh, sy dtg sendiri..alamak, teruk sgt ke? 

Xpelah, rumah sy dekat je.lgpun body sy selalu ok je kalu ada pape. Positive lagi, positive lagi.haha

Syukur sume ok je Cuma hari ni rasa kebas sket2..biasalah kan? :)

I need to come again the next 2 week for my next OGTT. Eyekkk. I don’t like OGTT L
 

Thank You ALLAH for everything, Alhamdulillah J