husband dependency syndrome

a single friend asked why married ladies develop 'husband dependency' after getting married whilst she lived alone (single life) for the past 20++ years before end up living with that man??

she asked out of curiosity why girlfriends end up entertaining their husband more than their friends.

once you get married you will realize that you really miss your girlfriends especially when you try to tell him the most exciting thing that happened to you that day with full of emotions and then he reply 'um'. sometime without looking at you.

BANG! you feel like you want to shoot yourself. haha

compared to what girlfriends will respond if you tell them the same story. the chat will be more alive and further exaggeration will lead to laughter and more smile.

i don't have any answer. maybe you will know once you get married :)

but i do miss all my friends and feel better when husband is around.

tamak haloba. sume nak.hehe

kerana

kerana

rumah tangga itu bukan semuanya indah seperti yang diimpi

perlu sentiasa menambah ilmu buat memimpin diri

perlu selau bertanya buat penguat hati

dan perlu tak lekang

bersujud dan bermunajat

pada pemilik segalanya agar sentiasa tenang dan kuat.

hargailah pasangan kita,

yakinlah bahawa dia yang terbaik untuk kita

kerana

dialah pilihan Allah untuk kita.

ibadah post delivery :)

apa ibadah- ibadah yg kena buat lepas bersalin oleh ibu bapa pada anak- anak?

kerana takut terlepas pandang, sy buat jadual ni.

Timeline kelahiran bayi, as requested by my husband:

Azan & iqamat	Sejurus selepas dilahirkan	Azan- telinga kanan Iqamat- telinga kiri
Tahnik		Membuka @ memecahkan mulut bayi dengan buah tamar yang dikunyah oleh orang alim dan bertaqwa.
Memberikan nama yang baik dan mencukur rambut	Sunat pada hari yang ketujuh kelahiran	Ibn Qayyim: mencukur rambut bayi meningkatkan tahap kesihatan, membuka selaput kepala dan mempertajamkan daya penglihatan, pendengaran dan deria hidu.
Akikah	Pada hari ketujuh kelahiran atau selewat- lewatnya sebelum anak itu baligh.	Anak lelaki- dua ekor kambing atau seekor memadai. Anak perempuan-memadai dengan seekor kambing sahaja.
Khitan	Anak perempuan- masih kecil Anak lelaki- sebelum baligh

happiness keeps u sweet,

trials makes u strong,

failure keeps u humble,

success keeps u glowing,

and 

ALLAH keeps u going :)

Thanks ALLAH!

I survive Pharmacy School :)

IIUM Convocation Ceremony 8 October 2012

24th weeks

It was an interesting 24^th week pregnancy check up. I thought I went to klinik on the right day, not knowing

that I am a week late from my appointment date. Nurse said ‘ kena tgk sokmo buku merah ni, x leh

tersilap’..huhu,sori misi (^_^)

It was interesting because my hemoglobin level drop to 10.0 gm %, I told the nurse that I took hematinic 

capsule, Zincofer. I don’t take the combination of folic acid, ferrous fumarate, ascorbic acid and vitamin B

complex that I got previously because there are sooooooo manyyy.. I did not comply to all those. :P

Besides, my hemoglobin level previously was ok..11, 12.. so I am at ease. 

Now the situation is different because the baby is bigger, baby need hemoglobin, I need hemoglobin..both of 

us fight for oxygen to continue survive.hehe. I was lectured on the dangerous of anemia, what should I eat to 

increase my iron level.. and I was referred to doctor because the hemoglobin is low. Euwww, I don’t like

because it will increase my waiting time…I am starving. Kreuk2..bunyi perut.hehe. 

The only drawback of government clinic is that u need to wait tooooooooooooo long to meet the nurses n

doctors. But the service is very satisfying, the nurses are very experienced and they are very concern. Last 

month,  I went back to Kubang Kerian for raya and did not come to clinic. They called. Puan, nape x dtg

klinik ni? Ops..sori misi, sy balik kg. jgn risau, sy g klinik dekat rumah sy.hehe.

When I meet the doctor, she asked what is Zincofer. I am not used to that. U bought it at pharmacy? I said

no. She then told me that if I insisted to take Zincofer, I should combine it with ferrous fumarate. I said ok.

But deep inside my heart, I think both doctor n nurses should refer to pharmacist in charge, ask her what is

‘this Zincofer’ thing and maybe suggest me to stop taking it and asked me to start back taking all those

sooooooo manyyyy ubat. Hoho. I am not satisfied, I am calling back the pharmacist who gave me the

medication to ask her clarification. Done.

The next interesting thing is I heard my baby pulse. Huhu. Misi Tanya dengar tak nadi yg slow belakang yang

kuat tu? Saya jawab dengar. Itu bunyi baby. J Masya Allah, Subhanallah. Thank You ALLAH J

The next thing is I was injected with tetanus toxoid. Walla, terkejutnya, sampai2 terus kena cucuk.

Misi, ni untuk apa? Sakit x?hehe. misi kata kebas 3-5 hari. Sy senyap. Tiba2 rasa takut plak. Err, btol kebas

3-5 hari? 'atas orang la, misi cakap” ok, I know I am strong. Everything will be ok.positive, positive.

Misi tanya, awk dtg nge suami kan? Takut x leh bwk kete. Eh, sy dtg sendiri..alamak, teruk sgt ke? 

Xpelah, rumah sy dekat je.lgpun body sy selalu ok je kalu ada pape. Positive lagi, positive lagi.haha

Syukur sume ok je Cuma hari ni rasa kebas sket2..biasalah kan? :)

I need to come again the next 2 week for my next OGTT. Eyekkk. I don’t like OGTT L
 

Thank You ALLAH for everything, Alhamdulillah J

20th week

Its final week of Ramadhan

3 more days for Eid

It’s my 20^th week

Looking at myself in the mirror..

Oh God, I am really pregnant.huhu

My baby keep moving and honestly scared me.

Trying my best to anticipate this physiological changes..

Praying hard for every moment coming ahead..

May ALLAH ease everything and make me calm. Amen.

Ramadhan Kareem

Anakku, esok 1 ramadhan, kita akan mula berpuasa. Mlm ni kita akan solat sunat terawikh dan bangun awal untuk bersahur. Smg Allah beri kita kekuatan untuk beribadah di bulan penuh keberkatan ini, insya Allah. Mama akan puasa penuh tahun ini sbb ada kamu anakku. kih2. Smg membesar dengan sempurna, menjadi hamba Allah yang bijaksana dan tidak pernah ingkar pada arahannya. 

Salam ramadhan kareem penuh kerinduan buat seluruh ahli keluargaku dan semua muslimin dan muslimat di seluruh dunia J

There are no mistakes, no coincidences
All events are blessings given to us to learn
A journey of a thousand miles started with only one step!

prestige pregnant diary

12/ 5/2012

it was my 12th day of my period of amenorrhea. I am excited to do Urine pregnancy Test. That very early morning, i did it..it was confusing at first but end up both double strips appear, its POSITIVE! Wah..dear baby, thinking about you inside my tummy is really exciting. 
Papa burn a cd, he labeled it as preg-1..indicate mama’s first preganancy..it contains quranic recitation and ‘good’ songs for both of us..thank you papa <3

14/5/2012

papa n mama went to klinik kesihatan kurnia, i am a little bit afraid at first...alhamdulullah, the result is really positive, you are really there dear =)

The staff nurse asked me to come back in a week time, that night i lamented that a week might be too long.u may become bigger without proper care. Papa smiled and brought out all his obsteric text book, log book n note book. He started to show me the details of every stage of preganancy. What a relief dear baby, you are still small, only 2mm on this day. I got nothing to worry. I am going to study all papa’s book. Not tonight, because mama got OSCE exam tomorrow. Eat well, grow well dear =)

Pray for me tomorrow..i believe everything’s gonna be alright because u r here with me.

Love from mama &papa <3

17/5/2012

ok, now I don’t know what happened. No morning sickness but I began crying of nothing. ‘Anxious mother’ papa said, the first time mother feeling. I can’t wait till next week so I made a lot of fuss and went to IIUM Clinic. The nurse said, it’s still too early just 6 weeks. I said..alah, boleh lah =)

Yeah, next the third positive UPT tests come out. Hehe.’ Nurse, dah 3 kali saya check..i need a doctor’. Mujur doktor baik. I need to do OGTT every three month because we have family history of DM dear baby, don’t worry, ALLAH ada. BP is normal 120/70 and she gave me folic acid. Thank you doctor!

A lot of mama’s friends are congratulating me. I have a lot of good and solehah friends. Insya ALLAH berkat doa semua org my dear baby will grow well with the grace of ALLAH.

Final exam is coming, let’s study together because we will together heading for convocation this October =)

doa

Setiap pasangan suami isteri punyai episod cinta yang berbeza.

Manis masam masin tawar dan segala rasa.

Telah di rasai dan bakal di rasai.

Semoga episod-episod cinta kita sentiasa menguatkan antara satu sama lain.

InsyaAllah.

Cinta kerana Allah.

Pasti tiada yang hampa.

Ameen

society

the day is here

alhamdulillah.

src agm

before i get married

i told S that i want to get married

but i don't want to compromise my commitment towards society after i got married.

it's been a bitter experience to be turned down by those who did not commit after kawen.

S said ' Let's do it!

with ALLAH's grace and willing,

alhamdulillah. within the best of our ability,

we manage to bear with it until the end.

and today's the agm

lets make it a proper ending =)

Last Sunday i went to a seminar

And the motivator told us

That u must have your own blog

Named by your name

Where you write things involving your life

Not to show off

But as your legacy

As your precious treasure

I thought the words was woww!

After years of having my own blog

I now heard words of justifications of having one

and i smiled and smile

Thank You ALLAH.